How to Enjoy Attending a Bar or Bat Mitzvah

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: Know that if you were invited to attend

   This will be if the celebration or birthday party following is catered in a hall or is a sit down dinner., Remember that everyone attending is there to have fun.
   
   The atmosphere is one of music, dance and laughter.
   
   Join in, relax and keep an open mind and just have fun! It is almost impossible not to, at any Bar or Bat Mitzvah celebration, even if it is held in the Temple itself and the set up being a buffet table., Spend time with family members, relax, and have fun.
   
   A Bar/Bat Mitzvah does not have to be a chore.
   
   A Mitzvah is meant to celebrate, not to sit around and be bored all day.
   
   Make up your mind to have fun and go for it! Dance, dine, sing and eat!
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   Step 2: you are either a member of the family

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   Step 3: an offspring of a friend

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   Step 4: or a friend of the person who is having their Bar or Bat Mitzvah

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   Step 5: Know that if you are a personal friend

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   Step 6: or a school friend it will be easy to have fun since you are sharing the table with those you already know.

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   Step 7: Understand that if you are going to attend with your family and have not yet met the Bar or Bat Mitzvah

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   Step 8: you will have to be introduced to everyone you are sharing the table with.

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   Step 9: Take the time to enjoy yourself.

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