How to Be a Great Guest for a Holiday Dinner
Know that this dinner is just like any other dinner, even if it's with people on whom you want to make a great impression., Be on time., Always bring something to compliment the dinner., Once you've arrived, personally thank the host for having you...
Step-by-Step Guide
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Step 1: Know that this dinner is just like any other dinner
Try to calm your nerves.
Be engaging with other guests and remember to smile. -
Step 2: even if it's with people on whom you want to make a great impression.
Punctuality shows respect and personal responsibility.
Arriving too early could interrupt the host's preparations, and lateness distracts guests from their conversations and potentially brings the host away from the party.
Neither of these scenarios cast you in a positive light. , You may ask the host what to bring, but it is bad form to ask whether or not to bring it.
The host could feel obligated to say no out of politeness.
Some examples of what to bring are wine, champagne, a dessert, or even some festive flowers. , Be genuine and to the point. , Keep it about the holiday.
Dress tastefully and leave personal drama at home. , Steer clear of anything that could cause any uncomfortable situations.
No discussion of politics, religion, or strong beliefs, even if other guests are engaging in it.
If asked your opinion, try to keep it light and diplomatic. , The last thing the host needs is to be put in a position to explain your actions to their guests. ,, Find something nice to say about the food, the house, or environment.
Be merry and enjoy! -
Step 3: Be on time.
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Step 4: Always bring something to compliment the dinner.
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Step 5: Once you've arrived
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Step 6: personally thank the host for having you over.
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Step 7: Don't make this dinner about you.
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Step 8: Keep in mind
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Step 9: holiday dinners are usually family focused.
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Step 10: Eat and drink lightly and politely.
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Step 11: Do not talk on your cell phone
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Step 12: or do social media networking.
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Step 13: Thank the host again
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Step 14: as well as the cook if these duties were shared.
Detailed Guide
Try to calm your nerves.
Be engaging with other guests and remember to smile.
Punctuality shows respect and personal responsibility.
Arriving too early could interrupt the host's preparations, and lateness distracts guests from their conversations and potentially brings the host away from the party.
Neither of these scenarios cast you in a positive light. , You may ask the host what to bring, but it is bad form to ask whether or not to bring it.
The host could feel obligated to say no out of politeness.
Some examples of what to bring are wine, champagne, a dessert, or even some festive flowers. , Be genuine and to the point. , Keep it about the holiday.
Dress tastefully and leave personal drama at home. , Steer clear of anything that could cause any uncomfortable situations.
No discussion of politics, religion, or strong beliefs, even if other guests are engaging in it.
If asked your opinion, try to keep it light and diplomatic. , The last thing the host needs is to be put in a position to explain your actions to their guests. ,, Find something nice to say about the food, the house, or environment.
Be merry and enjoy!
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