How to Connect As a Family at the Dinner Table

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: Try to set a time to eat dinner when all family members will be home.

   If this is not possible due to scheduling then choose a time when most members can be there and make that your regular dinner time. , When a family works together preparing the meals everyone is more willing to sit down and enjoy it together.
   
   Even small children can help, give them a task that will not involve sharp objects, glass or anything hot.
   
   They can help set the table by placing the napkins at each setting or they can take items to the table like the bread/rolls. ketchup. salad dressing (plastic bottles).
   
   Have older children set the table or help with peeling vegetables, stirring or mixing or getting the beverages., This is a great time to ask how everyone's day was? Discuss world affairs or at least your local news.
   
   Never force anyone to participate in the conversation, when they see how everyone is sharing their day they will eventually join in., If you really want to push the envelope you can spring a little dessert on them.
   
   At the same table.
   
   You can even offer them a healthy dessert like a bowl of fresh berries and yogurt.
   
   Or after dinner you can suggest a movie and start popping the popcorn.
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   Step 2: Give each member a task.

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   Step 3: Once dinner is ready and everyone has taken their seat at the table (a good time to say Grace if you prefer)

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   Step 4: the conversation can begin.

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   Step 5: After dinner

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   Step 6: have everyone pitch in and help even if they just empty their own plates the clean up will be easier for all.

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