How to Build Confidence in Your Child

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: Accept your child as he is.

   Confidence can not be forced out of your child.
   
   Be patient and supportive throughout as experts agree this plays a vital role in child development.
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   Step 2: Encourage your child to speak in public.

   Public speaking may seem daunting at first, but the only way to get rid of stage fright is by mustering up the courage to get up there. , Let your child know that he/she has worth and is important.
   
   Keep reminding them how awesome they are. , Show your child what good values are. , Reward and congratulate your child when they do something good.
   
   The greater the achievement, the greater the reward should be. , Don't press your child too hard or put their nose to the grindstone. , It is very important not to criticize your child for any flaws they are already aware of, as this will only lead to them being more nervous. ,, If your child knows you worry about them actively, it will only make them less confident.
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   Step 3: Smile and motivate your child if he/she talks to you.

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   Step 4: Lead by example.. Be confident and assertive when dealing with others and your child will follow your example.

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   Step 5: Use positive reinforcement.

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   Step 6: Avoid pressuring your child.

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   Step 7: Accept any rambling or stammering.

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   Step 8: Avoid harsh punishments like spanking

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   Step 9: caning

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    Step 10: or long periods of grounding.

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    Step 11: Avoid showing too much concern.

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