How to Deal With Bullying Teachers
Try to ignore it., Tell your parents., Start documenting the incidents., Tell your class teacher., Discuss the situation with your guidance counselor., Talk to your principal., Bring backup to the confrontation., Have evidence of bullying., Remain...
Step-by-Step Guide
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Step 1: Try to ignore it.
If you feel like you’re being bullied by a teacher, there is a possibility that you are blowing the situation out of proportion.
Give yourself a little time to cool down.
Ignore the teacher as much as possible without being blatantly rude and see what happens.If the bullying continues, then you should consider doing something about it. -
Step 2: Tell your parents.
If the bullying is really bothering you, tell your parents.
You might be a little nervous to talk to them about this, but just tell them what happened.
Your parents will care and will want to help you.If you feel that you aren't up to the task of bringing your teacher down, ask them to talk to him/her in your presence.
There is nothing “weak” in recognizing yourself as not willing to make a teacher your direct enemy., If you are being bullied by your teacher and you want this to stop, you’ll need to start gathering evidence.
Every time something happens that makes you feel bad or afraid, write it down.
Describe the situation, the events that happened, how it made you feel, and include the date and time of the incident., If you have a class teacher, do not be afraid of telling him or her.
Another teacher will be better equipped than you to know what to do next.
They will be able to guide you through the next steps.If your class teacher is the one who is bullying you, consider telling another teacher that you are close to about the problem. , Most schools have guidance counselors whose job it is to handle situations like this.
If you are being bullied by a teacher, make an appointment with your guidance counselor to talk about it.
They’ll talk to you about what the teacher is doing, how it makes you feel, and what can be done to resolve the situation.This is also a good idea because the guidance counselor will likely know the teacher who is bullying you, so they’ll be able to give you sound advice based on their personal knowledge. , Inform your principal about the bullying you are experiencing from a teacher.
Make an appointment with your principal to talk about why this situation is upsetting you.But remember, since informing your principal could lead to severe consequences for the teacher in question, you should only take this step as a last resort. , If you are nervous about confronting the teacher alone, ask your parents, the principal, or another teacher to go with you when you talk to them.
This should help prevent any future bullying and make you more confident about the outcome of your confrontation., If there is any evidence of the bullying, bring it with you when you confront the teacher.
The stronger your case is, the more likely the teacher will be to see your side of the story (or at least they might be too scared to do it again).
Maybe your teacher made some rude comments on one of your homework assignments.
Or maybe your teacher wrote something mean about you on the board and you took a picture of it.
Whatever evidence you may have to prove that you accusations are true, bring it. , When a kid confronts an adult, the kid is usually at an immediate disadvantage due to the age difference.
If you get upset and start crying hysterically, it will only confirm their suspicion that you are just an emotional child blowing things out of proportion.Stay calm and try not to cry or yell.
This will make you look more mature and will help the other adults to believe you.
If you are so upset that you cannot talk without crying or yelling, have one of the adults with you talk to the teacher for you. , Try doing this after class so it doesn’t make a scene, if possible.
The teacher's staff room is good if the other teachers like you, but be careful: if you put the teacher in an uncomfortable position, they may take out all of their frustration on you.
You can simply ask them outright: “Sir/Ma’am, I feel like you are bullying me and I would like to know why.” Try to have a calm conversation and tell them how you feel.
They might not even realize that they have made you feel this way.
In this case, a simple conversation should resolve your problems.
If the teacher is defensive or denies what you say, this is when it will be good to have your parents or the principal on your side. , A big part of determining whether or not you are being bullied is by reflecting on how your interactions with that person make you feel.
If you feel anxious, isolated, put down, humiliated, etc., then you are probably being bullied., Bullying happens when someone treats you poorly over and over.
If your teacher makes you upset one time, that doesn’t really count as bullying.
Think back over your interaction with your teacher and consider if there have been repeated instances when they made you feel bad or afraid., Sometimes teachers have to discipline students or make them do things they don’t want to do.
This is part of their job and isn’t considered bullying as long as they make the entire class do the same thing.
The key here is identifying whether your teacher is singling you out and treating you differently than the other students.
If your teacher is punishing only you or making mean comments to you in front of others, this is bullying. , There are many checklists/quizzes online that give you a list of questions to ask yourself about being bullied.
If you answer yes to any of the questions, it is probable that you are being bullied.
Try using the checklist quiz from Pacer Center’s Teens Against Bullying. -
Step 3: Start documenting the incidents.
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Step 4: Tell your class teacher.
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Step 5: Discuss the situation with your guidance counselor.
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Step 6: Talk to your principal.
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Step 7: Bring backup to the confrontation.
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Step 8: Have evidence of bullying.
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Step 9: Remain calm during the confrontation.
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Step 10: Talk directly to the teacher who is bullying you.
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Step 11: Think about how your teacher’s actions make you feel.
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Step 12: Look for a pattern.
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Step 13: Try to recognize the difference between not getting your way and being bullied.
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Step 14: Consult an online checklist about whether or not you’re being bullied.
Detailed Guide
If you feel like you’re being bullied by a teacher, there is a possibility that you are blowing the situation out of proportion.
Give yourself a little time to cool down.
Ignore the teacher as much as possible without being blatantly rude and see what happens.If the bullying continues, then you should consider doing something about it.
If the bullying is really bothering you, tell your parents.
You might be a little nervous to talk to them about this, but just tell them what happened.
Your parents will care and will want to help you.If you feel that you aren't up to the task of bringing your teacher down, ask them to talk to him/her in your presence.
There is nothing “weak” in recognizing yourself as not willing to make a teacher your direct enemy., If you are being bullied by your teacher and you want this to stop, you’ll need to start gathering evidence.
Every time something happens that makes you feel bad or afraid, write it down.
Describe the situation, the events that happened, how it made you feel, and include the date and time of the incident., If you have a class teacher, do not be afraid of telling him or her.
Another teacher will be better equipped than you to know what to do next.
They will be able to guide you through the next steps.If your class teacher is the one who is bullying you, consider telling another teacher that you are close to about the problem. , Most schools have guidance counselors whose job it is to handle situations like this.
If you are being bullied by a teacher, make an appointment with your guidance counselor to talk about it.
They’ll talk to you about what the teacher is doing, how it makes you feel, and what can be done to resolve the situation.This is also a good idea because the guidance counselor will likely know the teacher who is bullying you, so they’ll be able to give you sound advice based on their personal knowledge. , Inform your principal about the bullying you are experiencing from a teacher.
Make an appointment with your principal to talk about why this situation is upsetting you.But remember, since informing your principal could lead to severe consequences for the teacher in question, you should only take this step as a last resort. , If you are nervous about confronting the teacher alone, ask your parents, the principal, or another teacher to go with you when you talk to them.
This should help prevent any future bullying and make you more confident about the outcome of your confrontation., If there is any evidence of the bullying, bring it with you when you confront the teacher.
The stronger your case is, the more likely the teacher will be to see your side of the story (or at least they might be too scared to do it again).
Maybe your teacher made some rude comments on one of your homework assignments.
Or maybe your teacher wrote something mean about you on the board and you took a picture of it.
Whatever evidence you may have to prove that you accusations are true, bring it. , When a kid confronts an adult, the kid is usually at an immediate disadvantage due to the age difference.
If you get upset and start crying hysterically, it will only confirm their suspicion that you are just an emotional child blowing things out of proportion.Stay calm and try not to cry or yell.
This will make you look more mature and will help the other adults to believe you.
If you are so upset that you cannot talk without crying or yelling, have one of the adults with you talk to the teacher for you. , Try doing this after class so it doesn’t make a scene, if possible.
The teacher's staff room is good if the other teachers like you, but be careful: if you put the teacher in an uncomfortable position, they may take out all of their frustration on you.
You can simply ask them outright: “Sir/Ma’am, I feel like you are bullying me and I would like to know why.” Try to have a calm conversation and tell them how you feel.
They might not even realize that they have made you feel this way.
In this case, a simple conversation should resolve your problems.
If the teacher is defensive or denies what you say, this is when it will be good to have your parents or the principal on your side. , A big part of determining whether or not you are being bullied is by reflecting on how your interactions with that person make you feel.
If you feel anxious, isolated, put down, humiliated, etc., then you are probably being bullied., Bullying happens when someone treats you poorly over and over.
If your teacher makes you upset one time, that doesn’t really count as bullying.
Think back over your interaction with your teacher and consider if there have been repeated instances when they made you feel bad or afraid., Sometimes teachers have to discipline students or make them do things they don’t want to do.
This is part of their job and isn’t considered bullying as long as they make the entire class do the same thing.
The key here is identifying whether your teacher is singling you out and treating you differently than the other students.
If your teacher is punishing only you or making mean comments to you in front of others, this is bullying. , There are many checklists/quizzes online that give you a list of questions to ask yourself about being bullied.
If you answer yes to any of the questions, it is probable that you are being bullied.
Try using the checklist quiz from Pacer Center’s Teens Against Bullying.
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