How to Approach a Shy Toddler

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: Get down on their level.

   Kneel or sit down beside them.
   
   Little ones get nervous when you are much taller than them, so make yourself close to their size, to eliminate the risk of intimidating them.
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   Step 2: Speak quietly.

   Shy children can be scared by loud tones of voice, so speak softly and kindly.
   
   Children are excellent judges of vocal tones, so be sure to make yours inviting. , It will make them more comfortable if they know who you are.
   
   Try to introduce yourself as Mr. or Miss, and tell them a little bit about yourself. , Give them a smile, as this will show them that you are friendly. , Ask if they would like you to, and if so, begin to play.
   
   Ask them questions about the game.
   
   If they see you are fun, they will trust you. , Ask them about themselves, and do not speak too much.
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   Step 3: Introduce yourself.

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   Step 4: Smile a lot.

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   Step 5: Play with them.

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   Step 6: Most importantly

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   Step 7: speak TO them

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   Step 8: not AT them.

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