How to Make Time for Reading to Children
Select a suitable time of day., Select the particular days., Break down the reading., Read together., Read individually., Talk out loud when you are reading., Visit the library once a month for story telling., Praise your children.
Step-by-Step Guide
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Step 1: Select a suitable time of day.
The most suitable time of day is often bedtime but it might not be suitable for you.
It is very important to take into account your own energy levels and availability throughout the day.
If reading a goodnight story at 8pm has you yawning and trying hard to remain awake, perhaps a story before dinner, or a story in the afternoon will work out better.
You need to direct this decision to make it fit in rather than miss it. -
Step 2: Select the particular days.
One good idea is to alternate days or to only read on certain days.
For example, you might read weeknights only and not weekends.
Or not read Friday and Saturday nights.
Or read every second night.
Provided that you set in place a regular and consistent reading routine, this will still work really well.
It can help you to work around the ebb and flow of dealing with other children's activities, work-brought-home, night meetings for clubs, church, etc. , Rather than trying to go through five chapters of a large book each night, cut it down to two chapters.
Rather than read five storybooks, cut it down to two.
When the alternative is nothing at all, less chapters or books will be much preferred by your child. , When you have more than one child, make reading communal.
Where an older child is able to read finds this "unfair" or "annoying"
suggest that they do their reading time alone (and you can check the story's content later).
Another way to engage more than one child is to read a story pitched at each age group and have each of them listen politely in turn.
You will also find that "family favorites" develop over time that all the children will love hearing.
And don't forget recounts of your own childhood! , Even where you adopt the group reading, make at least one time a week per child to read individually.
This is both a bonding exercise and a source of encouragement for your child. , If you're reading a newspaper article or something online and you think it would interest your children, read it out loud to them.
This can happen at any time and is a good indicator to children that reading is an everyday, useful activity. , Make use of your local library's story telling facilities; take your children when these are happening.
While they are listening to the story, you can be relaxing or borrowing some books for your own interest. , When your children read anything
- be it the label off a cereal packet or a book, be sure to praise their reading at every chance you get.
Creating a reading culture in your family is an important way of helping children cope with their feelings and problems, as well as answering their curiosities, and developing their imagination. -
Step 3: Break down the reading.
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Step 4: Read together.
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Step 5: Read individually.
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Step 6: Talk out loud when you are reading.
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Step 7: Visit the library once a month for story telling.
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Step 8: Praise your children.
Detailed Guide
The most suitable time of day is often bedtime but it might not be suitable for you.
It is very important to take into account your own energy levels and availability throughout the day.
If reading a goodnight story at 8pm has you yawning and trying hard to remain awake, perhaps a story before dinner, or a story in the afternoon will work out better.
You need to direct this decision to make it fit in rather than miss it.
One good idea is to alternate days or to only read on certain days.
For example, you might read weeknights only and not weekends.
Or not read Friday and Saturday nights.
Or read every second night.
Provided that you set in place a regular and consistent reading routine, this will still work really well.
It can help you to work around the ebb and flow of dealing with other children's activities, work-brought-home, night meetings for clubs, church, etc. , Rather than trying to go through five chapters of a large book each night, cut it down to two chapters.
Rather than read five storybooks, cut it down to two.
When the alternative is nothing at all, less chapters or books will be much preferred by your child. , When you have more than one child, make reading communal.
Where an older child is able to read finds this "unfair" or "annoying"
suggest that they do their reading time alone (and you can check the story's content later).
Another way to engage more than one child is to read a story pitched at each age group and have each of them listen politely in turn.
You will also find that "family favorites" develop over time that all the children will love hearing.
And don't forget recounts of your own childhood! , Even where you adopt the group reading, make at least one time a week per child to read individually.
This is both a bonding exercise and a source of encouragement for your child. , If you're reading a newspaper article or something online and you think it would interest your children, read it out loud to them.
This can happen at any time and is a good indicator to children that reading is an everyday, useful activity. , Make use of your local library's story telling facilities; take your children when these are happening.
While they are listening to the story, you can be relaxing or borrowing some books for your own interest. , When your children read anything
- be it the label off a cereal packet or a book, be sure to praise their reading at every chance you get.
Creating a reading culture in your family is an important way of helping children cope with their feelings and problems, as well as answering their curiosities, and developing their imagination.
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