How to Talk to a Girl when You're a Boy in High School

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: All relationships have to start somewhere

   If she's in your English/History/Chemistry class, strike up a conversation with her! For example, "What do you think you got on the test?" Talk about something pertaining to that class you share together! Or just give her a friendly "hello"
   
   there's nothing wrong with exchanging opinions or making a friendly comment!
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   Step 2: say "hey!".

   Eventually it will lead somewhere, like stated before, all relationships have to start somewhere.
   
   Become friends with her, friendship is the perfect way to start a dating relationship! Like the old saying goes, "best friends make the best boyfriends." Just make sure you don't camp out in the friend zone.. , "I like you hair today!" or if make a comment on what she's wearing- "you look pretty in the color blue!" It'll let you know that you're paying attention.
   
   Plus, girls appreciate when guys notice little things like that. , Once you've established a friendship with her, get the opportunity to advance towards a dating relationship by talking to her outside of school.
   
   Don't know how to get her phone number? Make up an excuse! A perfect example would be, "Tomorrow I have a big exam in Chemistry! Can you text me and remind me to study?" or something like that. , Be honest! Tell her flat-out that you like her.
   
   Don't play games, and if you're honest then you'll get a better feel of where you stand with her.
   
   Plus, if she doesn't like you and you tell her that you like her- remember! You won't be wasting your time on someone who doesn't feel the same way.
   
   Don't know how to tell her? Simple! Say, "Listen, (insert name), I have something to say.. in case if you didn't know, I like you.
   
   And if you like me too, I hope we can be more than friends.
   
   If not, it's fine.
   
   I just had to let you know." You can change this part if you'd like, but this is just a rough sketch so you can make up your own clever lines! Good luck!
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   Step 3: Continue saying "hi"

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   Step 4: to her.

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   Step 5: Make it evident that you have romantic interest in her- flirt with her or give her compliments!

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   Step 6: Get her phone number!

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   Step 7: When it all comes down to it

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   Step 8: no matter how many compliments you give her

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   Step 9: no matter how many times you text her.

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