How to Be a Classical Girl
Act like a lady, you're not little anymore., Practice good posture., Speak like a lady., Never run!, Be friendly to everyone around you, always smile, have a nice attitude and never cuss., Dress like a lady., Shoes can make or break an outfit., Wear...
Step-by-Step Guide
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Step 1: Act like a lady
Take etiquette classes, read etiquette books, or even learn etiquette online.
Any lady knows the proper way to act in every situation.
Mind basic manners, such as not laughing or talking when eating, saying "Please" and "Thank you"
and respecting elders. -
Step 2: you're not little anymore.
Sit straight up, put your legs and your hands down.
Keep feet flat on the ground, or you may cross them at the ankles.
Stand with your head, shoulders, hips, and ankles in a straight line.
Imagine a string pulling your body straight up.
When walking, cross one leg slightly in front of the other as if walking on a line. , Do not speak loudly, it can be considered rude.
Speak at an audibly, but not excessively loud.
Enunciate and exude confidence with your words.
Improve your vocabulary.
This shows you are educated.
Learn new words every day and actively use them when you speak.
Also be sure to practice proper grammar and spelling. , Walk at a comfortable pace, taking small steps instead of wide ones and walking as if gliding through the air. , If you do not like someone, remain civil and courteous to them and treat them with respect, but do not act as if you are friends with them.
Remember that there is a reason behind the things people do.
For example, if you do not like a girl because she is an "attention seeker"
keep in mind that her attention seeking behavior may be due to the fact that she might have been bullied or ignored in the past. , Dress modestly and femininely.
Wear colors such as light pinks, creams, white, black, dark reds, mauve, navy, purples, and grays.
Floral prints are also great options.
Cotton, satin, velvety and sheer materials make you appear ladylike.
Wear skirts.
The best lengths are from mini to knee length.
Pleated, A-line, circle, and pencil skirts are recommended.
Wear sweaters.
Cardigans and pullovers are classic, and look great with collared shirts underneath.
Turtlenecks are a great choice for colder weather.
You can also wear pea coats, blazers, fake leather jackets, or other chic outerwear to keep you warm.
Accessories can add a special touch to an outfit.
A bag to carry your things is important.
For school, choose a backpack with good support to keep from hurting your back.
A simple cross-body bag can keep your important things near you at all times.
A pearl necklace or a simple silver or gold chain looks elegant. , It's recommended to have at least three basic pairs: one for sports or active wear, one for school or work, and one for special events.
Sports shoes should be a good quality.
They should be breathable.
Black or white shoes match almost any outfit.
Try not to wear heels very often.
They are bad for your health.
If you do decide to wear them, keep them 4 inches or under. , Always condition it, and try to avoid heat styling or using many alcohol filled or drying products, as these things can damage your hair.
Keep it natural colors, and if you choose to dye it, dye it black, brown, blonde, or a natural shade of red.
You can also highlight it.
Comb with a wide toothed comb when it is wet, and if you have curly or wavy hair, do not brush it when it is dry or it will become frizzy.
Avoid perms and relaxers.
If you want wavy hair without head, put it into to two side braids or two french braids before you sleep.
If you have frizzy hair, put a leave-in conditioner or serum into you hair and put it into a ponytail or bun before you sleep.
If you have afro-textured hair, wear protective hairstyles or let your hair be natural.
Some examples of protective styles are cornrows, twists, and braids. , Some concealer under the eyes and on blemishes should be enough skin coverage for most girls.
If you do need more coverage, wear a BB cream.
Blend it into the neck to avoid a visible difference where your face ends.
If you'd like to keep skin matte, use translucent powder.
Eyeliner should be pencil and look as if it is barely there.
If you decide to apply makeup to your eyebrows, use a pencil or powder and make it look natural by using little product.
Lip balm or gloss keeps lips hydrated. , Eat well and eat good portions.
You can find out how many calories you need in a day online.
Try to eat that many calories to maintain your weight.
Do not go on starvation diets.
Exercise 60 minutes a day with cardio and strength training.
Don't smoke, drink, or do drugs.
Don't forget your mental health.
If you are dealing with a difficult situation or are not feeling well, talk to a parent, counselor, or other trusted adult.
Develop healthy coping methods, and do your best to refrain from engaging in harmful behavior such as cutting, isolating yourself, or self starvation. , Keep facial hair away with plucking or waxing.
Shave, use a hair removal cream, or wax body hair.
Daily showers are a must.
Take care of your skin.
Wash with a gentle cleanser made for your face.
If you have acne, use one with salicylic acid.
Use a toner after washing, the a moisturizer, serum, or ampule.
You can also layer these products.
Exfoliate two to three times a week.
Use hydrating or detoxifying masks.
Don't forget to exfoliate and moisturize the skin on your body as well.
Keep nails trimmed and clean.
You can paint them simple colors or have cool designs.
It's better to have short nails as they are less likely to break and stay cleaner. , Use deodorant.
Scented lotions and body wash can be used.
For perfume, choose a scent that is floral, vanilla-scented, or sweet smelling.
One or two sprays is enough., Clean after every mess, and volunteer to clean other things in your home as well.
Keep your bag and other belongings organized and uncluttered. , A lady is well educated.
Try to learn new things in your free time, and develop an interest in things like coding, science, literature, music, and more., Play an instrument, draw, make websites, design fashion.
Find an activity you like and aim to be one of the best at it. -
Step 3: Practice good posture.
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Step 4: Speak like a lady.
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Step 5: Never run!
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Step 6: Be friendly to everyone around you
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Step 7: always smile
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Step 8: have a nice attitude and never cuss.
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Step 9: Dress like a lady.
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Step 10: Shoes can make or break an outfit.
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Step 11: Wear your hair anyway you like.
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Step 12: Keep makeup appearing natural.
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Step 13: Stay healthy.
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Step 14: Groom yourself well.
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Step 15: Smell good.
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Step 16: Be organized
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Step 17: don't leave your room or your working area messy.
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Step 18: Keep good grades and aim high.
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Step 19: Develop your talents.
Detailed Guide
Take etiquette classes, read etiquette books, or even learn etiquette online.
Any lady knows the proper way to act in every situation.
Mind basic manners, such as not laughing or talking when eating, saying "Please" and "Thank you"
and respecting elders.
Sit straight up, put your legs and your hands down.
Keep feet flat on the ground, or you may cross them at the ankles.
Stand with your head, shoulders, hips, and ankles in a straight line.
Imagine a string pulling your body straight up.
When walking, cross one leg slightly in front of the other as if walking on a line. , Do not speak loudly, it can be considered rude.
Speak at an audibly, but not excessively loud.
Enunciate and exude confidence with your words.
Improve your vocabulary.
This shows you are educated.
Learn new words every day and actively use them when you speak.
Also be sure to practice proper grammar and spelling. , Walk at a comfortable pace, taking small steps instead of wide ones and walking as if gliding through the air. , If you do not like someone, remain civil and courteous to them and treat them with respect, but do not act as if you are friends with them.
Remember that there is a reason behind the things people do.
For example, if you do not like a girl because she is an "attention seeker"
keep in mind that her attention seeking behavior may be due to the fact that she might have been bullied or ignored in the past. , Dress modestly and femininely.
Wear colors such as light pinks, creams, white, black, dark reds, mauve, navy, purples, and grays.
Floral prints are also great options.
Cotton, satin, velvety and sheer materials make you appear ladylike.
Wear skirts.
The best lengths are from mini to knee length.
Pleated, A-line, circle, and pencil skirts are recommended.
Wear sweaters.
Cardigans and pullovers are classic, and look great with collared shirts underneath.
Turtlenecks are a great choice for colder weather.
You can also wear pea coats, blazers, fake leather jackets, or other chic outerwear to keep you warm.
Accessories can add a special touch to an outfit.
A bag to carry your things is important.
For school, choose a backpack with good support to keep from hurting your back.
A simple cross-body bag can keep your important things near you at all times.
A pearl necklace or a simple silver or gold chain looks elegant. , It's recommended to have at least three basic pairs: one for sports or active wear, one for school or work, and one for special events.
Sports shoes should be a good quality.
They should be breathable.
Black or white shoes match almost any outfit.
Try not to wear heels very often.
They are bad for your health.
If you do decide to wear them, keep them 4 inches or under. , Always condition it, and try to avoid heat styling or using many alcohol filled or drying products, as these things can damage your hair.
Keep it natural colors, and if you choose to dye it, dye it black, brown, blonde, or a natural shade of red.
You can also highlight it.
Comb with a wide toothed comb when it is wet, and if you have curly or wavy hair, do not brush it when it is dry or it will become frizzy.
Avoid perms and relaxers.
If you want wavy hair without head, put it into to two side braids or two french braids before you sleep.
If you have frizzy hair, put a leave-in conditioner or serum into you hair and put it into a ponytail or bun before you sleep.
If you have afro-textured hair, wear protective hairstyles or let your hair be natural.
Some examples of protective styles are cornrows, twists, and braids. , Some concealer under the eyes and on blemishes should be enough skin coverage for most girls.
If you do need more coverage, wear a BB cream.
Blend it into the neck to avoid a visible difference where your face ends.
If you'd like to keep skin matte, use translucent powder.
Eyeliner should be pencil and look as if it is barely there.
If you decide to apply makeup to your eyebrows, use a pencil or powder and make it look natural by using little product.
Lip balm or gloss keeps lips hydrated. , Eat well and eat good portions.
You can find out how many calories you need in a day online.
Try to eat that many calories to maintain your weight.
Do not go on starvation diets.
Exercise 60 minutes a day with cardio and strength training.
Don't smoke, drink, or do drugs.
Don't forget your mental health.
If you are dealing with a difficult situation or are not feeling well, talk to a parent, counselor, or other trusted adult.
Develop healthy coping methods, and do your best to refrain from engaging in harmful behavior such as cutting, isolating yourself, or self starvation. , Keep facial hair away with plucking or waxing.
Shave, use a hair removal cream, or wax body hair.
Daily showers are a must.
Take care of your skin.
Wash with a gentle cleanser made for your face.
If you have acne, use one with salicylic acid.
Use a toner after washing, the a moisturizer, serum, or ampule.
You can also layer these products.
Exfoliate two to three times a week.
Use hydrating or detoxifying masks.
Don't forget to exfoliate and moisturize the skin on your body as well.
Keep nails trimmed and clean.
You can paint them simple colors or have cool designs.
It's better to have short nails as they are less likely to break and stay cleaner. , Use deodorant.
Scented lotions and body wash can be used.
For perfume, choose a scent that is floral, vanilla-scented, or sweet smelling.
One or two sprays is enough., Clean after every mess, and volunteer to clean other things in your home as well.
Keep your bag and other belongings organized and uncluttered. , A lady is well educated.
Try to learn new things in your free time, and develop an interest in things like coding, science, literature, music, and more., Play an instrument, draw, make websites, design fashion.
Find an activity you like and aim to be one of the best at it.
About the Author
Ashley Bell
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