How to Deal with a Person You Suspect Has ADD or ADHD

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: Get them involved in many sports and extra activities.

   Music is very good for people with ADD or ADHD.
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   Step 2: Never yell at them.

   They will be very upset.
   
   Try saying everything in a calm voice, yet firm.
   
   Always listen to their side, and respect it.
   
   Think about what they have to say. ,, People with ADHD or ADD are brilliant.
   
   Although they have problems doing certain things, they are very smart. , Since their creativity is big, let them be whatever they want.
   
   Help them make their dreams come true.
   
   Even if it being on Disney channel or being a famous musician.
   
   Go along with it.
   
   Their success will surprise you, very much. , If they dislike you doing something try to stop it immediately.
   
   Unless it is needed. ,, When something bad happens suddenly, they feel that they are worthless and stop caring about everything.
   
   Make sure that NEVER happens. ,, Bullies can make your kid lose control.
   
   If there is ever a bully mentioned you have to go straight to the principle and get the problem solved immediately. , Special tutors know ways to improve their concentration and behavior. , Never let your teenager see it.
   
   They will feel as if they are being punished and treated like little kids and they will dislike that.
   
   Put on the chart what bothers you most.
   
   Grades? If they get straight A's that week reward them with something they did not have already.
   
   Like a $5 to target or Starbucks.
   
   If you reward them with something they had before they will feel bad and punished.
   
   Like Tv time. , For example:
   If your kid watches tv all day long, instead of taking the remote, try making them join a sport.
   
   It will take up their time, be very healthy, and they won't feel like they are being punished. , So make sure not to mention it to them. ,, When they lose weight they will be very happy and satisfied.
   
   If they dislike something, find a way to fix it. , This will help them a lot.
   
   But make a schedule that both of you agree with. 1 Hour of exercises is an absolute need.
   
   Something like theater for teenagers is a good idea.
   
   It will help them to be able to perform in front of people, and gain confidence in talking, presenting, and being friendly. , Sometimes, when your teenager wins at something, it proves something themselves. , Engage in conversations. ,,, It could really destroy their ego. ,, It might embarrass them. ,,,, Sometimes they can't help it.
   
   That is just the way they function.
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   Step 3: Always try their options

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   Step 4: most people won't understand why you are saying "no" to their idea until

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   Step 5: you show them

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   Step 6: and they can see from their point of view why it is bad.

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   Step 7: Never ever think that your kid is dumb or stupid.

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   Step 8: Respect their dreams.

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   Step 9: Always respect their opinion.

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    Step 10: Hire tutors

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    Step 11: Make sure they never quit.

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    Step 12: Watch their teachers carefully

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    Step 13: if a teacher is very strict and keeps making your kid feel bad make sure they get switched immediately.

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    Step 14: Watch out for all bullies.

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    Step 15: Hire a special tutor.

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    Step 16: Create a chart.

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    Step 17: If you want them to get less of something they already have

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    Step 18: NEVER take it away

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    Step 19: instead

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    Step 20: try to distract them from it.

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    Step 21: Some teenagers don't like knowing or being reminded that their ADHD or ADD.

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    Step 22: If they need help with something

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    Step 23: always rescue them.

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    Step 24: Do everything to help them build their confidence

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    Step 25: if they are over weight and that bothers them

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    Step 26: sign them up for a gym.

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    Step 27: Have a strict schedule.

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    Step 28: Let your kid compete.

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    Step 29: Always talk to your kid.

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    Step 30: Love your kid

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    Step 31: and remind them that you love them everyday.

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    Step 32: Give them hugs everyday.

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    Step 33: We all know that siblings insult each other

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    Step 34: but keep hurtful comments away from your kid.

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    Step 35: Eat healthy.

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    Step 36: Never do anything they dislike in public.

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    Step 37: Let them have their freedom.

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    Step 38: Always have at least 20 minutes of you and them time.

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    Step 39: Discuss everything you do with your kid.

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    Step 40: Never blame or insult your kid.

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