How to Decide if You Are Attracted to Someone
Note how often you think about the person., Note changes in your physical appearance., Monitor your physical reaction.
Step-by-Step Guide
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Step 1: Note how often you think about the person.
When you are attracted to a person, you may find yourself thinking about them more often than you think about anyone else and doing so beyond your control.When you are not attracted to someone, you will likely be indifferent.
Ask yourself the following questions:
Do I frequently find myself wanting to be where they are? Am I disappointed when they do not return my text messages or phone calls? -
Step 2: Note changes in your physical appearance.
If you care a lot about your physical appearance, especially if it is more than usual, you are likely attracted to the person.
You are demonstrating that you care how they feel about your appearance, and you probably care how they feel about you.
Here are a few questions to ask yourself:
Do I care more about how my hair looks? Do I spend more time deciding what clothing to wear? Am I wearing more perfume or cologne? , Sometimes figuring out if you are attracted to someone is very easy because you have an immediate physical response that seems to grow within you and is sometimes felt in your mind, body, and heart.
This may include nervousness or a feeling of having butterflies in your stomach (fluttering).
Note your heart rate and check your palms when you think about the person or when they are around you.
Without even being aware of it, when are attracted to someone you will act differently when they are around.
The primary reason is because you feel self-conscious and you want to make a good impression.
This may sound strange, but believe it or not, as human beings we are drawn to others based upon their natural odor.
Just like you may be attracted to a person’s physical characteristics, odor can foster attraction.
Additionally, odor can cause you to remember events and think fondly about a person and the time that you spent together. -
Step 3: Monitor your physical reaction.
Detailed Guide
When you are attracted to a person, you may find yourself thinking about them more often than you think about anyone else and doing so beyond your control.When you are not attracted to someone, you will likely be indifferent.
Ask yourself the following questions:
Do I frequently find myself wanting to be where they are? Am I disappointed when they do not return my text messages or phone calls?
If you care a lot about your physical appearance, especially if it is more than usual, you are likely attracted to the person.
You are demonstrating that you care how they feel about your appearance, and you probably care how they feel about you.
Here are a few questions to ask yourself:
Do I care more about how my hair looks? Do I spend more time deciding what clothing to wear? Am I wearing more perfume or cologne? , Sometimes figuring out if you are attracted to someone is very easy because you have an immediate physical response that seems to grow within you and is sometimes felt in your mind, body, and heart.
This may include nervousness or a feeling of having butterflies in your stomach (fluttering).
Note your heart rate and check your palms when you think about the person or when they are around you.
Without even being aware of it, when are attracted to someone you will act differently when they are around.
The primary reason is because you feel self-conscious and you want to make a good impression.
This may sound strange, but believe it or not, as human beings we are drawn to others based upon their natural odor.
Just like you may be attracted to a person’s physical characteristics, odor can foster attraction.
Additionally, odor can cause you to remember events and think fondly about a person and the time that you spent together.
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Adam Taylor
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