How to Discover Your Emotions as a Man
Do not listen to what other people are saying., Find out how you react when you're happy, sad, mad, melancholy, etc., Map out your emotions., Entertain the emotions of being human., Acknowledge the beauty of being warm and caring., Accept to your...
Step-by-Step Guide
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Step 1: Do not listen to what other people are saying.
If they want to believe that men should not display emotions or connect with emotions, that is their choice.
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Step 2: Find out how you react when you're happy
Instead of trying to force these feelings away, start accounting for them in your life and considering what purpose each one has in making your life more fulfilling. , Keep a journal of your feelings and how they improve your performance at work, during leisure, within the family, etc. and start focusing on using these emotions more intelligently to improve your relations with others. , You have them for a reason, to express them, come to terms with them and in so doing, you will hasten your own healing processes.
If it were originally meant for men "not to cry"
then men ideally would have been created with no tear ducts.
The anatomy of men would have been built differently. , This character trait in a man is considered somewhat appealing or even sexy. , If others find this weird, break or steer away from their company.
Hopefully they may see the advantages and follow in our footsteps. , Do not attempt to be a blind follower.
How does one clearly define being "Macho".
This term is only a perception created by mindless and other fallible human beings.
People have their own idea of perfection, entirely their own for the keeping and preservation.
Leave other men to it, if this is what makes them happy. , After all, it is about being essentially human.
What can be so wrong in that? , This will take you to a much higher realm, or physical state.
Only good things will follow and this will help you grow in becoming an emotionally functional man. , -
Step 3: melancholy
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Step 4: Map out your emotions.
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Step 5: Entertain the emotions of being human.
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Step 6: Acknowledge the beauty of being warm and caring.
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Step 7: Accept to your own identity and uniqueness as someone who can show and display emotions.
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Step 8: Strive to create precedence as a role model or leader.
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Step 9: Encourage others to follow in your footsteps.
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Step 10: Start with a simple enigmatic smile.
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Step 11: Always remember that the greatest men in history
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Step 12: William Shakespeare
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Step 13: Nelson Mandela
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Step 14: even the great State Presidents of our time
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Step 15: were very well known for their emotional appeal and charisma.
Detailed Guide
If they want to believe that men should not display emotions or connect with emotions, that is their choice.
You don't have to agree or join them.
Instead of trying to force these feelings away, start accounting for them in your life and considering what purpose each one has in making your life more fulfilling. , Keep a journal of your feelings and how they improve your performance at work, during leisure, within the family, etc. and start focusing on using these emotions more intelligently to improve your relations with others. , You have them for a reason, to express them, come to terms with them and in so doing, you will hasten your own healing processes.
If it were originally meant for men "not to cry"
then men ideally would have been created with no tear ducts.
The anatomy of men would have been built differently. , This character trait in a man is considered somewhat appealing or even sexy. , If others find this weird, break or steer away from their company.
Hopefully they may see the advantages and follow in our footsteps. , Do not attempt to be a blind follower.
How does one clearly define being "Macho".
This term is only a perception created by mindless and other fallible human beings.
People have their own idea of perfection, entirely their own for the keeping and preservation.
Leave other men to it, if this is what makes them happy. , After all, it is about being essentially human.
What can be so wrong in that? , This will take you to a much higher realm, or physical state.
Only good things will follow and this will help you grow in becoming an emotionally functional man. ,
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