How to Find Out if He Is for Real

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: When you first met this boy

   Was it a little weird; or maybe it was a secure feeling?
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   Step 2: what was your initial vibe?

   Does he seem to have a lot of "friends-who-are-girls"? Does he have real bad language, maybe talk a little bad about women? Does he imply bad intentions? If he hates his ex today, maybe he'll be saying the same bad things about you tomorrow. , What do his good friends say about him? What do his ex-girlfriends say about him? , This may tell you how long the relationship may last which, in turn, will tell you if he's serious about a commitment to you. , He should treat you differently, act a little more respectfully. i.e.
   
   He shouldn't curse (as much) around you, or make "rude" noises and/or gestures.
   
   This should be left with his buddies. ,
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   Step 3: Don't be "creepy nosy

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   Step 4: " but just think about his Myspace or stuff laying around in his room.

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   Step 5: Have you heard people talk about him

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   Step 6: whether it be good or bad.

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   Step 7: How many ex-girlfriends has he had?

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   Step 8: How does he act around you opposed to his friends or family?

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   Step 9: Ask yourself

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    Step 10: "Could I stand this person being with someone else".

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