How to Get Along with Anyone

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: Avoid talking to this person for a while.

   Watch how they interact with other people.
   
   Keep a mental note.
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   Step 2: Talk to others

   You could also simply watch others to see how they react to this person. , Maybe you overheard a conversation they had about a certain interest.
   
   Maybe you could just ask a quick question (if you were, say, at work) and see how they react to it.
   
   Or lastly, just simply introduce yourself. "Oh, hey, I haven't met you yet, I'm Danny"
   
   And see what happens. , No matter how annoying you think they are, a smile could mean a lot of things.
   
   If they are nice, do the same.
   
   Everyone likes strangers to think they like them in some way. , When they are around, be outgoing and show them how you are, what you like, without them knowing you are showing them.
   
   Similar to what you did to them earlier, but vice versa. , Repeat all steps (especially the watching and learning) until this person starts approaching you.
   
   They will.
   
   It just takes time.
   
   Then start talking about the things that you have learned you will both be interested in. , This will avoid any conflict. , It will usually happen on its own, naturally, and over a period of time. , Conversation will get more intense each time you communicate.
   
   Your instincts will tell you which direction to go. , Nobody likes someone who spreads rumors and secrets.
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   Step 3: without gossiping

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   Step 4: to see how they feel about the person.

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   Step 5: Get an "in" with the person.

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   Step 6: If this person is crude or annoying

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   Step 7: you could give them a smile when they try to be funny

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   Step 8: without others seeing.

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   Step 9: Let the person observe you.

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    Step 10: If you do not like this person

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    Step 11: say as little as possible to them when they approach you.

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    Step 12: If you do like this person

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    Step 13: and want a relationship

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    Step 14: take the approaches as they come.

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    Step 15: Eventually

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    Step 16: you will become comfortable around this person

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    Step 17: or learn to avoid them based on your wants.

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    Step 18: If they tell you a secret

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    Step 19: keep it.

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