How to Get the Girl You Like

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: Remember the last time you fell in love.

   It wasn't when you were near the person, it was while you were away, thinking about them! So if you're constantly around her, she'll lose interest.
   
   Make sure you make her think about you while you're away.
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   Step 2: Always remain a bit of a mystery.

   This way she won't lose interest too fast.
   
   For example, if you just met her and she asks about your job, give a few details but don't go overboard because she will probably ask you about it some more herself; make her feel more included in the conversation. , Show her she has competition.
   
   But at the same time, treat her just that little bit more special than you do them. , The balance is 'I want you but I don't need you' if you could successfully communicate this balance to a girl this is going to make you a lot more attractive.
   
   One way to incorporate this balance into your personality is to say the same thing repeatedly into your head when her thought comes to your head.
   
   The reasons for it are...
   
   Neediness.
   
   Women or girls find neediness Gross in a guy or a man.
   
   Think of it this way women are the one, in most cases and cultures, who are lead by men, but when a man becomes needy this is like role reversal, which is one of the reason why this is gross for a girl when a guy acts needy.
   
   Again Neediness is Gross, women don't like a guy who is insecure......Bottom-line.
   
   Scarcity.
   
   Its human nature, we are attracted to things which we can't have or are scarce.
   
   In the same way this balance can sub-communicate to the girl that you are scarce in the market, which in return would make you more attractive. , Find out what she likes and dislikes and make a conversation out of it. , You may not know that you're going on and on talking about something you like.
   
   Some girls get bored to death really quickly! , Girls like guys that are sensitive and not afraid to crack a little joke every now and then.
   
   Marilyn Monroe once said that if you can make a woman smile, you can make her do anything. , If she's sad, find a way to make her happy.
   
   If she's happy, help her stay that way, so that you both can have a great day. , She'll think it's awkward and instead of walking with you she might run off with her friends where she knows she can talk. ,, Show her you can handle being the center of interest.
   
   To achieve this, you may want to work on your conversational skills. ,, If you feel she may like you back then move on to complimenting her looks slightly
   - but not in a perverted way.
   
   Tell her she's beautiful or that she has nice eyes. , A simple greeting is enough, then get back to your business. ,, Gotta go." Always put kisses (not an over the top amount though!) this will show her you like her and also hints at more than friends. ,, If it's her shirt, or her amazing eyes, it will make her feel better about herself!
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   Step 3: Don't be afraid to talk to other women in her presence.

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   Step 4: Sub-communicate a balance.

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   Step 5: Get to know the girl.

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   Step 6: Be aware of what you're doing.

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   Step 7: Always try to make her smile.

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   Step 8: Always make sure she's OK.

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   Step 9: Don't let there be too much of a silence.

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    Step 10: Act naturally

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    Step 11: without giving the impression you are actually changing yourself to make her like you.

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    Step 12: Be confident without being cheeky.

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    Step 13: Stay away from cheesy lines like "Your father must have been a thief

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    Step 14: cause he stole the stars and put them in your eyes".

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    Step 15: Show her you're interested in her by saying

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    Step 16: for example

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    Step 17: "I like your shirt".

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    Step 18: Don't feel obliged to talk to her every time you see her.

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    Step 19: During a casual conversation mention you'll be doing something fun this weekend

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    Step 20: like going to a new club.

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    Step 21: Continue the conversation some 10 minutes

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    Step 22: then say

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    Step 23: "It was nice talking to you.

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    Step 24: Some girls however aren't into parties and such like

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    Step 25: so perhaps suggest going for a walk together (if you have a dog ask her if she'd like to join you sometime) or maybe going into town etc.

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    Step 26: Girls like to feel pretty

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    Step 27: so make SURE to compliment her.

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