How to Initiate Physical Contact with a Girl

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: If you're walking with her

   For example, touch her shoulder and say "Look at that! I can't believe it!" or grab her hand and say "Wait! Over here!"
   
   For example, brush her hair, say "Your hair used to be a total mess, seems like it is much better now"
   
   and smile a little.
   
   Make it sincere, say something that is only true.
   
   But no cheesy things, that works only if she liked you already. ,, That tells her that it's okay to be in your personal space.
   
   Try putting your arm around her shoulders.
   
   If she snuggles closer or doesn't pull back, you know you've gotten past the stage where physical contact is awkward.
   
   You may also want to (very lightly) "bump" into her.
   
   This is especially effective if you're sitting beside her or walking beside her. , Tickling sends the same signals as pain, so be sure she's the kind of girl that doesn't mind. . , Be sure to give it back so your plan doesn't backfire! You don't want a slap as physical contact!
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   Step 2: gently touch her back

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   Step 3: as if you are playing "train" in kindergarten.

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   Step 4: Use things around you to give reason for contact.

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   Step 5: and then a compliment.

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   Step 6: Lightly place your hand on her knee when standing up

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   Step 7: and give an excuse for leaving.

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   Step 8: If she moves close to you

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   Step 9: don't move away.

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    Step 10: Lightly tickle her ONLY if she is ticklish and doesn't mind being tickled.

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    Step 11: Take her pencil (or object she won't mind too much that you took) and tease her a bit.

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