How to Keep Calm When Around Someone Special
Take a deep breath., Put a smile on your face., Laugh., Be Hygienic., Be friendly and warm., When you're ready.... let the secret out!
Step-by-Step Guide
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Step 1: Take a deep breath.
It's the most simple reflex in the human body.
When you take a deep breath, your body automatically relaxes.
Being relaxed is a good way to show your crush that you're a calm and relaxed person.
Everyone likes to hang around with someone who's cool as a cucumber.
In through your nose, out through your mouth. -
Step 2: Put a smile on your face.
Unless the occasion is somber, put a smile on your face, like you're enjoying what's going on around you and are engaged in the conversation.
If you're alone, a content look will suffice.
This also makes you look relaxed. , If your crush says something humorous, laugh.
Don't laugh at every word that comes out of his/her mouth, just when he/she cracks a joke or double entendre. , This is a given.
No one wants to be around someone who smells.
Take a bath or shower everyday, and wear deodorant.
If you're a girl, wearing a little makeup is good, but not a necessity. , "In order to have a friend, be a friend." This almost always is the case.
You want to befriend your crush, but at the same time try to avoid "the friend-trap".
This is where you get so close in a friendship, risking it for a relationship wouldn't be advisable.
Be close and hang out, but not too often, unless you know he/she likes you too. , Not to your friends, not on your Facebook or Myspace.
To the girl/guy you like.
It may be awkward.
But that's part of the magic! -
Step 3: Laugh.
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Step 4: Be Hygienic.
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Step 5: Be friendly and warm.
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Step 6: When you're ready.... let the secret out!
Detailed Guide
It's the most simple reflex in the human body.
When you take a deep breath, your body automatically relaxes.
Being relaxed is a good way to show your crush that you're a calm and relaxed person.
Everyone likes to hang around with someone who's cool as a cucumber.
In through your nose, out through your mouth.
Unless the occasion is somber, put a smile on your face, like you're enjoying what's going on around you and are engaged in the conversation.
If you're alone, a content look will suffice.
This also makes you look relaxed. , If your crush says something humorous, laugh.
Don't laugh at every word that comes out of his/her mouth, just when he/she cracks a joke or double entendre. , This is a given.
No one wants to be around someone who smells.
Take a bath or shower everyday, and wear deodorant.
If you're a girl, wearing a little makeup is good, but not a necessity. , "In order to have a friend, be a friend." This almost always is the case.
You want to befriend your crush, but at the same time try to avoid "the friend-trap".
This is where you get so close in a friendship, risking it for a relationship wouldn't be advisable.
Be close and hang out, but not too often, unless you know he/she likes you too. , Not to your friends, not on your Facebook or Myspace.
To the girl/guy you like.
It may be awkward.
But that's part of the magic!
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Joan Price
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