How to Stop Obsessing over a Player
Really think over your situation with this person., Having low self-esteem can make a player seem like the dream guy., Learn to love yourself and divert all this attention from him to yourself., If need be seek therapy., Ask yourself why you would...
Step-by-Step Guide
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Step 1: Really think over your situation with this person.
If it was destructive from the beginning it's better that it's over.
If you are still involved with this person, break it off! The longer you are involved the harder this will be to heal. -
Step 2: Having low self-esteem can make a player seem like the dream guy.
Men can sense a women who doesn't respect herself (i.e. he knows that he is a loser so if you are with him, what do you think he thinks about you?). , Take up a hobby.
Exercise.
Do what's best for you.
Seek friends/family! Life is short! , Co-dependence is not fun, whether it's a good guy or a player. , HIV and AIDS don't discriminate and being with someone like this just increases risk! Nobody is worth all that! , He is a jerk.
You are not the only one he sleeps with and doesn't call the next day.
Most players have women throwing themselves at them, regardless of the situation.
Players numb the feeling of caring about anyone., Don't whine, cry etc.
He isn't worth it.
Remember any attention, negative or not is still attention which feeds his ego.
End it quickly, with no messy interactions. , -
Step 3: Learn to love yourself and divert all this attention from him to yourself.
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Step 4: If need be seek therapy.
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Step 5: Ask yourself why you would even want to get involved with a selfish player
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Step 6: who sleeps around and is just going to use you as a vessel for his sexual needs.
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Step 7: Don't take his actions personally!
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Step 8: Don't call him - ever.
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Step 9: Learn to love yourself a little more each and every day.
Detailed Guide
If it was destructive from the beginning it's better that it's over.
If you are still involved with this person, break it off! The longer you are involved the harder this will be to heal.
Men can sense a women who doesn't respect herself (i.e. he knows that he is a loser so if you are with him, what do you think he thinks about you?). , Take up a hobby.
Exercise.
Do what's best for you.
Seek friends/family! Life is short! , Co-dependence is not fun, whether it's a good guy or a player. , HIV and AIDS don't discriminate and being with someone like this just increases risk! Nobody is worth all that! , He is a jerk.
You are not the only one he sleeps with and doesn't call the next day.
Most players have women throwing themselves at them, regardless of the situation.
Players numb the feeling of caring about anyone., Don't whine, cry etc.
He isn't worth it.
Remember any attention, negative or not is still attention which feeds his ego.
End it quickly, with no messy interactions. ,
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