How to Tell The Difference Between Slutty and Sexy

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: Stick to this rule: Only wear one item of revealing clothing per outfit and don't wear anything that is extremely revealing

   Revealing clothing includes: micro mini skirts, very short shorts, low cut tops, backless tops, long skirts with thigh high slits and crop tops.
   
   Not wearing any of these together is suggested.
   
   Pop stars and film stars are frequently seen in sexy revealing outfits though so only follow this rule if you think it is relevant.
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   Step 2: unless you want to.

   If you said "hot" then you may need to change your outfit.
   
   There is a subtle difference between beautiful and hot that many people can detect which, ultimately, influences the perception of "trashy" and "sexy."
   
   So if you skip the drama and quit acting spoiled and mean you shouldn't have problems with cute booty jeans and a cute top.
   
   You can be proud to be a slut if you wish.
   
   It's only other people who are defining your actions as slutty.
   
   Many people who bandy around the term slut have a very narrow minded, misogynistic definition of the term. , Dressing in a trashy manner often sends messages of insecurity and actually displays a lack of self confidence.
   
   Remember this when dressing yourself, if you think it's relevant.
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   Step 3: Ask yourself when you look in the mirror when wearing your next questionable outfit: Do I look beautiful or hot?

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   Step 4: Remember part of being labeled/called a slut is in the attitude and actions taken by a person.

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   Step 5: Recognize that some girls who dress skimpy only are trying to get attention because they can't get it any other way.

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