How to Understand Why People Choose to Steal
Recognize the signs of kleptomania., Identify addiction-related stealing., Understand that pathological stealing is generally not personal.
Step-by-Step Guide
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Step 1: Recognize the signs of kleptomania.
Kleptomania is a type of impulse control disorder in which a person repeatedly has the urge to steal items that are not needed or that have very little value.
A kleptomaniac may not need the item or might even have the money to purchase it.
Still, the person compulsively steals because they get a rush from doing it.People with this disorder do not steal for personal gain.
They do not usually plan out thefts or collaborate with others to complete them.
Instead, these urges come on spontaneously.
The person may steal from public places such as stores or from the homes of family or friends.
If you know someone who can’t seem to stop stealing, suggest that they see a doctor.
Kleptomania can be treated with therapy and medication.
You might tell the person: "I noticed that you took something out of that store.
I know that you had the money, so I'm guessing you just had a desire to steal it.
I'm concerned and I don't want you to get into trouble.
Maybe you should talk to a professional.
I'm willing to go with you." -
Step 2: Identify addiction-related stealing.
A kleptomaniac steals merely for the rush and doesn't take the value of the stolen items into consideration.
On the contrary, other forms of pathological theft are driven by addiction.
In fact, stealing — along with financial difficulties — is often described as one of the warning signs of addiction.
A person with a substance abuse problem or gambling addiction may take money from relatives, friends, and coworkers to fund their addiction.
Lying is also a component of this type of theft; therefore, if the person is confronted about the issue, they are likely to deny having a problem.Other signs of addiction may include making friends with a new group while neglecting existing friendships, having trouble with the law, having difficulty functioning at school and work, and having rocky relationships.If you suspect someone you know may be stealing to fund an addiction, get the person professional help immediately.
You can approach the person and ask about the behavior: "Lately you've been behaving differently, withdrawing from your friends, and having trouble keeping money.
I'm worried you might have a drug problem." If the person is in denial about drug use, you can arrange to stage an intervention.
An intervention involves other people who care about the person joining you in reaching out to them and explaining your concerns.
This can serve as an impetus to get the person into addiction treatment. , People who steal pathologically are generally not doing it to intentionally harm anyone.
The stealing meets a need — whether emotionally or literally.
People who steal for pathological reasons may feel guilty about their behavior, but still be unable to stop it without intervention. -
Step 3: Understand that pathological stealing is generally not personal.
Detailed Guide
Kleptomania is a type of impulse control disorder in which a person repeatedly has the urge to steal items that are not needed or that have very little value.
A kleptomaniac may not need the item or might even have the money to purchase it.
Still, the person compulsively steals because they get a rush from doing it.People with this disorder do not steal for personal gain.
They do not usually plan out thefts or collaborate with others to complete them.
Instead, these urges come on spontaneously.
The person may steal from public places such as stores or from the homes of family or friends.
If you know someone who can’t seem to stop stealing, suggest that they see a doctor.
Kleptomania can be treated with therapy and medication.
You might tell the person: "I noticed that you took something out of that store.
I know that you had the money, so I'm guessing you just had a desire to steal it.
I'm concerned and I don't want you to get into trouble.
Maybe you should talk to a professional.
I'm willing to go with you."
A kleptomaniac steals merely for the rush and doesn't take the value of the stolen items into consideration.
On the contrary, other forms of pathological theft are driven by addiction.
In fact, stealing — along with financial difficulties — is often described as one of the warning signs of addiction.
A person with a substance abuse problem or gambling addiction may take money from relatives, friends, and coworkers to fund their addiction.
Lying is also a component of this type of theft; therefore, if the person is confronted about the issue, they are likely to deny having a problem.Other signs of addiction may include making friends with a new group while neglecting existing friendships, having trouble with the law, having difficulty functioning at school and work, and having rocky relationships.If you suspect someone you know may be stealing to fund an addiction, get the person professional help immediately.
You can approach the person and ask about the behavior: "Lately you've been behaving differently, withdrawing from your friends, and having trouble keeping money.
I'm worried you might have a drug problem." If the person is in denial about drug use, you can arrange to stage an intervention.
An intervention involves other people who care about the person joining you in reaching out to them and explaining your concerns.
This can serve as an impetus to get the person into addiction treatment. , People who steal pathologically are generally not doing it to intentionally harm anyone.
The stealing meets a need — whether emotionally or literally.
People who steal for pathological reasons may feel guilty about their behavior, but still be unable to stop it without intervention.
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