How to Convince Someone to Try a Long Distance Relationship

If you are good friends with the person, assure them that you will try to get your friendship back if things end badly., Agree on ways of keeping in touch., Make sure the relationship doesn't take over your entire life., Be prepared for a little...

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Step-by-Step Guide

  1. Step 1: If you are good friends with the person

    A phone call every Thursday, a text every so often, seeing each other at least one weekend every month. , Don't spend all your time either seeing your partner or travelling.

    Keep seeing your friends, working, taking time to be by yourself. , Some people say if relationships are hard work, they're not worth it.

    However, long distance relationships are hard work.

    Determine whether you and your partner can work on it. , Trust is a big thing in a long distance relationship.

    You can cheat on your partner easily without them noticing.

    You'll have to trust each other to cope. , Travel can be hard but try not to collapse on the couch.

    Go out to dinner, catch a movie, whatever.

    This will make the relationship feel a little more.. normal. , You can try the relationship for a certain amount of time (longer than a week) and if it really doesn't work out, you can go back to being friends, no harm done.

    If it does work, you have yourself a relationship.
  2. Step 2: assure them that you will try to get your friendship back if things end badly.

  3. Step 3: Agree on ways of keeping in touch.

  4. Step 4: Make sure the relationship doesn't take over your entire life.

  5. Step 5: Be prepared for a little work.

  6. Step 6: Know if you can trust her.

  7. Step 7: Do things together.

  8. Step 8: Ask the person if they wanna go on a "trial".

Detailed Guide

A phone call every Thursday, a text every so often, seeing each other at least one weekend every month. , Don't spend all your time either seeing your partner or travelling.

Keep seeing your friends, working, taking time to be by yourself. , Some people say if relationships are hard work, they're not worth it.

However, long distance relationships are hard work.

Determine whether you and your partner can work on it. , Trust is a big thing in a long distance relationship.

You can cheat on your partner easily without them noticing.

You'll have to trust each other to cope. , Travel can be hard but try not to collapse on the couch.

Go out to dinner, catch a movie, whatever.

This will make the relationship feel a little more.. normal. , You can try the relationship for a certain amount of time (longer than a week) and if it really doesn't work out, you can go back to being friends, no harm done.

If it does work, you have yourself a relationship.

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