How to Deal with an Autistic Girlfriend
Read about autism online., Try attending an autism/disability group with her (if she goes to one)., Don't be afraid to ask questions., Don't judge her when her behavior is a little unusual.
Step-by-Step Guide
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Step 1: Read about autism online.
It helps to look up articles by autistic people (which usually paint a more accurate picture than articles by non-autistic people).
This will help you have an idea what your girlfriend is dealing with. -
Step 2: Try attending an autism/disability group with her (if she goes to one).
You can talk to other autistic people, and ask her (or them!) how you can be helpful. , If there's something you don't understand, ask her to explain it to you.
Getting to understand her autism is part of getting to know her. , Autistic people do some different but harmless things: stimming, toe-walking, not making eye contact, et cetera.
Treat these as quirks rather than deficits, and let her be herself. -
Step 3: Don't be afraid to ask questions.
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Step 4: Don't judge her when her behavior is a little unusual.
Detailed Guide
It helps to look up articles by autistic people (which usually paint a more accurate picture than articles by non-autistic people).
This will help you have an idea what your girlfriend is dealing with.
You can talk to other autistic people, and ask her (or them!) how you can be helpful. , If there's something you don't understand, ask her to explain it to you.
Getting to understand her autism is part of getting to know her. , Autistic people do some different but harmless things: stimming, toe-walking, not making eye contact, et cetera.
Treat these as quirks rather than deficits, and let her be herself.
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