How to Get a Boy to Date You when He's Already Dating
Find a male who is in a relationship, to whom you are genuinely attracted to., Establish some sort of contact with the boy, if at all possible., Whenever talking to him, keep the conversation light, and let him do almost all the talking., Thank him...
Step-by-Step Guide
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Step 1: Find a male who is in a relationship
It is possible to steal a boyfriend you are not attracted to, but if the boyfriend stealing is being performed as revenge on a girl you dislike, be warned, it will backfire! -
Step 2: to whom you are genuinely attracted to.
It can be for anything, homework/work help, chatting on the phone, advice on something, etc.
Make it something where he will be helping you but won't have to go out of his way to do so.
If it's a major inconvenience, he may say no. , Show him how much you enjoy listening. , Compliment him on how well it was done.
Tell him that if he ever needs anything at all, you are there for him. , Be ready to listen to him moan about all his problems, especially relationship problems. , In general, however, take note of anything he mentions about her that he dislikes and try not to be like her.
Sympathize with him when he is upset and remind him you will always be there when he needs you. , If he thinks she shops too much, tell him you hate shopping.
If he's upset that she doesn't like watching football, ask him to come to a match with you.
If he thinks she's too uptight, engage in childlike pranks with him.
But don't change yourself too much because he should always like you for who you are and who you're not.
If he is going to leave his girlfriend for you then he should be leaving her for a good reason rather than for a false personality.
Just engage yourself in his hobbies. , He will be beginning to see you in a different light.
Yet, do not engage in serious flirting with him at this point.
Try to leave him some clues but don't be obvious with him, it could harm your chances of him leaving her, as he will no longer see you as a challenge.
Don't wear anything too short, be classy, and don't show too much skin. , Anyone.
Your crush is beginning to see you in a new way, and this will make him jealous.
Continue to tell him how happy you are.
Now, when he moans about his relationship woes, reassure him there is better out there, and that perhaps she is overly high-maintenance.
He should be at the tipping point of his relationship. , Your hair will be shiny, but don't have it look too done.
Have your makeup done professionally, get your nails done, and whatever you need to do to look natural.
Find the most flattering casual outfit you can.
Have all your waxing done, and try using Nivea to remove any dry skin.
Make your skin look as soft and delicious as possible. , If you don't, you could be caught out, as you are lying.
Tell him, and the boyfriend you are stealing, that your man wasn't who you thought.
Stick to that story and refuse to elaborate.
Whatever you do, try not to change your story. , Tell him everything is messed up with your man, and that you could really use him just now.
Ask him to come over.
You have your hot but natural look. , Ask him for a hug.
Watch DVDs you know he likes.
Pretend to enjoy them. , By all means kiss him, but sleeping with him would be counterproductive at this point. , Do not stick with the natural look.
Show a "little" cleavage.
At this point, his relationship with his girlfriend should be damaged beyond repair.
Be honest about your feelings, if he does not share his at this point share them, then walk away.
He may even follow if he doesn't don't get all upset and angry with the guy. , Use caution. , Try not to be anything like his ex, and whatever you do, don't point out the wrongs in his ex. , -
Step 3: Establish some sort of contact with the boy
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Step 4: if at all possible.
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Step 5: Whenever talking to him
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Step 6: keep the conversation light
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Step 7: and let him do almost all the talking.
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Step 8: Thank him for whatever he has done for you
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Step 9: even if it is of no real help.
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Step 10: Continue conversing with him.
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Step 11: When he talks about his girlfriend
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Step 12: remain positive about her.
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Step 13: Whatever quality he mentions he dislikes in her
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Step 14: become the opposite.
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Step 15: Bring out your sexiest outfits.
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Step 16: Find another guy.
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Step 17: Go to the hair-salon
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Step 18: and ask for a natural-looking blowout.
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Step 19: Dump the man you are dating.
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Step 20: Phone the boyfriend you are stealing.
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Step 21: When he comes over
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Step 22: stick to your story and tell the him that you would rather just forget about the other guy and move on with your life.
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Step 23: Do not sleep with him.
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Step 24: Arrange an outing.
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Step 25: If he does share them
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Step 26: let him set the pace with breaking it off with her
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Step 27: but be aware he may be playing you to see how you will react.
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Step 28: Once he has ended his relationship with her
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Step 29: you can really move on together
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Step 30: but remember if he left her
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Step 31: he could leave you.
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Step 32: When things start going better
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Step 33: go even farther with the relationship and see where you end up.
Detailed Guide
It is possible to steal a boyfriend you are not attracted to, but if the boyfriend stealing is being performed as revenge on a girl you dislike, be warned, it will backfire!
It can be for anything, homework/work help, chatting on the phone, advice on something, etc.
Make it something where he will be helping you but won't have to go out of his way to do so.
If it's a major inconvenience, he may say no. , Show him how much you enjoy listening. , Compliment him on how well it was done.
Tell him that if he ever needs anything at all, you are there for him. , Be ready to listen to him moan about all his problems, especially relationship problems. , In general, however, take note of anything he mentions about her that he dislikes and try not to be like her.
Sympathize with him when he is upset and remind him you will always be there when he needs you. , If he thinks she shops too much, tell him you hate shopping.
If he's upset that she doesn't like watching football, ask him to come to a match with you.
If he thinks she's too uptight, engage in childlike pranks with him.
But don't change yourself too much because he should always like you for who you are and who you're not.
If he is going to leave his girlfriend for you then he should be leaving her for a good reason rather than for a false personality.
Just engage yourself in his hobbies. , He will be beginning to see you in a different light.
Yet, do not engage in serious flirting with him at this point.
Try to leave him some clues but don't be obvious with him, it could harm your chances of him leaving her, as he will no longer see you as a challenge.
Don't wear anything too short, be classy, and don't show too much skin. , Anyone.
Your crush is beginning to see you in a new way, and this will make him jealous.
Continue to tell him how happy you are.
Now, when he moans about his relationship woes, reassure him there is better out there, and that perhaps she is overly high-maintenance.
He should be at the tipping point of his relationship. , Your hair will be shiny, but don't have it look too done.
Have your makeup done professionally, get your nails done, and whatever you need to do to look natural.
Find the most flattering casual outfit you can.
Have all your waxing done, and try using Nivea to remove any dry skin.
Make your skin look as soft and delicious as possible. , If you don't, you could be caught out, as you are lying.
Tell him, and the boyfriend you are stealing, that your man wasn't who you thought.
Stick to that story and refuse to elaborate.
Whatever you do, try not to change your story. , Tell him everything is messed up with your man, and that you could really use him just now.
Ask him to come over.
You have your hot but natural look. , Ask him for a hug.
Watch DVDs you know he likes.
Pretend to enjoy them. , By all means kiss him, but sleeping with him would be counterproductive at this point. , Do not stick with the natural look.
Show a "little" cleavage.
At this point, his relationship with his girlfriend should be damaged beyond repair.
Be honest about your feelings, if he does not share his at this point share them, then walk away.
He may even follow if he doesn't don't get all upset and angry with the guy. , Use caution. , Try not to be anything like his ex, and whatever you do, don't point out the wrongs in his ex. ,
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