How to Have a Happy Spiritual Relationship
Strive for a good relationship., Be in your relationship yourself., Avoid too much criticism., Avoid to cut off your partner too often his wishes., Solve conflicts constructively., Spend regular time with certain activities that make you and your...
Step-by-Step Guide
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Step 1: Strive for a good relationship.
Marriage is work.
It is a false way of comprehending that one can let go completely at home.
It takes some effort to make a relationship succeed, and you have to decide if you're willing to put in that work. -
Step 2: Be in your relationship yourself.
Live yourself and your needs so that you feel good in thee.
Do not work too much. , Do criticism factual, sensitive and at the right moment.
The basic rule for each relationship is least 2 / 3 praise and less than 1 / 3 critique. , Say yes as often as is possible. , Clarify the precise factual situation.
Think about different solutions.
Find the good common ground. , For example, sex, dining, travel, excursions and a common hobby. , For example, flowers, small gifts and affection.
Tell him that you love him.
Take him in the arm.
Rejoice with positive sentences and gestures. , Work on your own negative characteristics. , Do not reward negative behavior.
Stay in a neutral form or say "No". , A good relationship is based on teamwork.
A good team has a common goal.
It knows its way to success. , Go out of the way, if you are aggressive.
Come for yourself to peace, before you communicate with your partner.
Be more gentle than aggressive.
Love grows on the basis of non-violence, wisdom and gentleness. , Men love admiration.
Women love gestures of affection. , Live in truth.
Truth is the basis of every good relationship. , Find a suitable name for this higher principle.
Call it luck, love, truth, or spirituality.
Connect you regularly and in all beautiful and all difficult situations with your higher principle.
Live in the center of your relationship from your higher principle. , Love means to be able to forgive.
Love means to apologize. , Love means to have patience. , Do not demand too much from the partner, the life and yourself.
Anyone who can not limit his wishes becomes permanently unhappy.
Who does not know his point of satisfaction will never be satisfied.
What is your full stop? , Everyone has strengths and weaknesses.
No man is perfect.
Love means to love the partner with his weaknesses.
Accept the smallness in you, then you can take it in your fellow man. ,, Who wishes the happiness of all beings is growing in his own happiness.
This is the highest spiritual wisdom. -
Step 3: Avoid too much criticism.
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Step 4: Avoid to cut off your partner too often his wishes.
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Step 5: Solve conflicts constructively.
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Step 6: Spend regular time with certain activities that make you and your partner pleasure.
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Step 7: Gladden your partner regularly with a little attention.
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Step 8: Avoid things that your partner does not like.
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Step 9: Limit up adequately against negative behavior from your partner (for example tantrums
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Step 10: violations of positive life principles).
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Step 11: Be a good team.
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Step 12: Be gently with each other.
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Step 13: Compliment each other.
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Step 14: Be honest with each other.
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Step 15: Anchor your relationship in a positive principle.
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Step 16: Forgive one another your faults.
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Step 17: Have patience.
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Step 18: Be modest.
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Step 19: Take your partner like he is.
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Step 20: Do daily spiritual exercises such as yoga
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Step 21: walking
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Step 22: reading
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Step 23: reflection (introspection)
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Step 24: positive thinking (cognitive work) and meditation.
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Step 25: Do never stop to wish all beings happy.
Detailed Guide
Marriage is work.
It is a false way of comprehending that one can let go completely at home.
It takes some effort to make a relationship succeed, and you have to decide if you're willing to put in that work.
Live yourself and your needs so that you feel good in thee.
Do not work too much. , Do criticism factual, sensitive and at the right moment.
The basic rule for each relationship is least 2 / 3 praise and less than 1 / 3 critique. , Say yes as often as is possible. , Clarify the precise factual situation.
Think about different solutions.
Find the good common ground. , For example, sex, dining, travel, excursions and a common hobby. , For example, flowers, small gifts and affection.
Tell him that you love him.
Take him in the arm.
Rejoice with positive sentences and gestures. , Work on your own negative characteristics. , Do not reward negative behavior.
Stay in a neutral form or say "No". , A good relationship is based on teamwork.
A good team has a common goal.
It knows its way to success. , Go out of the way, if you are aggressive.
Come for yourself to peace, before you communicate with your partner.
Be more gentle than aggressive.
Love grows on the basis of non-violence, wisdom and gentleness. , Men love admiration.
Women love gestures of affection. , Live in truth.
Truth is the basis of every good relationship. , Find a suitable name for this higher principle.
Call it luck, love, truth, or spirituality.
Connect you regularly and in all beautiful and all difficult situations with your higher principle.
Live in the center of your relationship from your higher principle. , Love means to be able to forgive.
Love means to apologize. , Love means to have patience. , Do not demand too much from the partner, the life and yourself.
Anyone who can not limit his wishes becomes permanently unhappy.
Who does not know his point of satisfaction will never be satisfied.
What is your full stop? , Everyone has strengths and weaknesses.
No man is perfect.
Love means to love the partner with his weaknesses.
Accept the smallness in you, then you can take it in your fellow man. ,, Who wishes the happiness of all beings is growing in his own happiness.
This is the highest spiritual wisdom.
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Aaron Ward
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