How to Move in Effectively for a Kiss
Choose a place that is secluded and romantic., Slowly put your arm around her gently, barely touching her shoulders just so she can barely feel your arm. , Adjust yourself and get your arm closer and closer becoming more and more apparent that you...
Step-by-Step Guide
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Step 1: Choose a place that is secluded and romantic.
The best place most of the time is one of the participants' houses, at the beach (preferably sunset) or in the cinema.
Put in a movie or start watching television, or choose something that is conducive to inactive participation.
Make sure that the girl sits down first.
Then sit next to her close enough that your thighs are lightly touching but not so much as to cause an uncomfortable situation for the lady. -
Step 2: Slowly put your arm around her gently
, Be sure to be very sensitive to body language and her feelings.
Soon if she wants to continue escalating the physical contact, which she usually does, she will lean forward slightly. , If she settles into your arm, then it is likely that she wanted you to do this.
If it becomes awkward, she probably did not want you to do this. , If she shrugs your hand, this is a hint that she doesn't want you to do this. , Continue moving your hand, and eventually make your way up to her ears, stroke them so gingerly as they are a very erogenous area if you touch them correctly. , When you think you are ready and she is ready, gently trace your finger along her jaw-line.
Then, gently, ever so gently, turn her head towards you and lean in close.
While her head is turning and when she gets around to face you, look at her eyes.
Go 90% of the way in and let her come in 10%. -
Step 3: barely touching her shoulders just so she can barely feel your arm.
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Step 4: Adjust yourself and get your arm closer and closer becoming more and more apparent that you have your arm around her.
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Step 5: Slide your arm down to the point that it is around her neck.
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Step 6: Begin to slowly stroke the peak of her shoulder very softly.
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Step 7: Continue stroking her shoulder and gently and slowly move it up to her neck and rub her neck very gently.
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Step 8: Keep stroking the ears.
Detailed Guide
The best place most of the time is one of the participants' houses, at the beach (preferably sunset) or in the cinema.
Put in a movie or start watching television, or choose something that is conducive to inactive participation.
Make sure that the girl sits down first.
Then sit next to her close enough that your thighs are lightly touching but not so much as to cause an uncomfortable situation for the lady.
, Be sure to be very sensitive to body language and her feelings.
Soon if she wants to continue escalating the physical contact, which she usually does, she will lean forward slightly. , If she settles into your arm, then it is likely that she wanted you to do this.
If it becomes awkward, she probably did not want you to do this. , If she shrugs your hand, this is a hint that she doesn't want you to do this. , Continue moving your hand, and eventually make your way up to her ears, stroke them so gingerly as they are a very erogenous area if you touch them correctly. , When you think you are ready and she is ready, gently trace your finger along her jaw-line.
Then, gently, ever so gently, turn her head towards you and lean in close.
While her head is turning and when she gets around to face you, look at her eyes.
Go 90% of the way in and let her come in 10%.
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