How to Respond to Listings on Penpal or Dating Sites

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: Read the person's profile carefully.

   What are their interests? What do you have in common? What is it about them that you find unique or interesting?
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   Step 2: Hit reply.

   ,,, For example, if they say they like to read, ask them about their favorite authors.
   
   Questions about tastes in books, music, movies and TV shows are always good. , If their profile is well-written, let them know that.
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   Step 3: Start off with a brief explanation of who you are and why you are writing to them.

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   Step 4: State the interests that you have in common.

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   Step 5: Ask the person some questions based on statements they've made.

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   Step 6: Compliment the person.

Detailed Guide

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