How to Respond When Asked on a Date

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: If you want to go out with him

   If you really like him, then go for it.
   
   Even if you get embarrassed easily, it's just one word.
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   Step 2: then just say yes.

   This could just end up hurting him more
   - no one wants to go out with someone who doesn't like them. , If you say maybe, then it could just be giving false hope if you end up deciding not to go out with him.
   
   You don't want to lead him on. , Don't be harsh in your letdown; it probably took him weeks to get the courage to confront you. , It's better to get rejected than to think you have a chance with someone when you don't.  , It will just get boring and uncomfortable, and you giving him all the reasons why you don't want to go out with him won't help him. ,
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   Step 3: If you don't want to go out with him

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   Step 4: don't say yes.

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   Step 5: Try to give a definite answer of either yes or no.

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   Step 6: If you don't like the guy that way

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   Step 7: then say no in a nice way.

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   Step 8: Never say yes if you don't want to be his girlfriend.

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   Step 9: If you do say no try to put him down gently

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    Step 10: but don't go on and on.

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    Step 11: If you want a date with him

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    Step 12: but you think the time is not suitable

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    Step 13: just propose another time

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    Step 14: so that he doesn't take it as a rejection.

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