How to Survive a Separated Relationship

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: Cut all the communications with the ex-lover after confirming that he/she is not getting back to your life.

   And it's officially over.
   
   Many a times you might feel to call her and hear her voice or ask how she is doing and all that stuff.
   
   But do not do this mistake at all.
   
   It will just add to your misery.
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   Step 2: Understand that Life will feel shattered and you won't feel like living at all.

   The thing is that love is not the heart of life but a part of life.
   
   There is life ahead and you might find someone else more deserving than the one that left you. , Its temporary that you don't like to do those things.
   
   But once over it you will again find that interesting.
   
   Hence start doing those things. , They will come forward to be with you and help you in these difficult times.
   
   Be with your friends and family and you will find comfort. , It eases your tensions and give life a new meaning. , Find new friends.
   
   One girl has left you so make it a point to fill that place with at least 10 new person.
   
   Let it be friends, family etc but broaden your interactive circle. , God punishes people for their sins in the world itself.
   
   So pray for your forgiveness and you will find peace of mind if you are spiritually connected to god. , Always try to be with someone else.
   
   Let it be brother, sister, friends etc, but be with someone else always. ,, Let it be small things also but make a list and try to achieve it one by one.
   
   It will give your life a motto. , You will get peace of mind.
   
   Forgive her and let her live her life and don't poke into her life because that might irritate her and you will feel more pain.
   
   Remember its not going to be the same after breakup.
   
   The relation changes and the priorities changes.
   
   You are just a memory for him/her hence you don't try to be in their life as a friend or anything else. , I have been experiencing this from the last 40 days.
   
   The cure to this is to do physical exercises so that your body is tired and you at least get a good night sleep which is very essential. ,, This is the best method to overcome grief as you are bound to develop pseudo relationship.
   
   Watch series like Dexter,Full House etc.
   
   But beware to only watch it till you are normal or you risk getting addicted.
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   Step 3: Just Imagine yourself when the girl was with you and at time what were the things you enjoyed doing apart from being with her.

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   Step 4: Be with your loved ones who really loves you.

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   Step 5: Exercise or gym or any other sports activity is a must.

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   Step 6: Visit new places.

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   Step 7: if you believe in a higher power

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   Step 8: Spiritually attach to god at these times and pray for the forgiveness of your sins.

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   Step 9: Never be alone.

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    Step 10: Busy yourself in doing something new in your free time.

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    Step 11: Make a list of all the things you want to achieve in your life.

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    Step 12: Best things is to forgive your ex no matter how wrong he/she has done to you.

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    Step 13: Sleepless nights are very common.

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    Step 14: Your family and friends can just support you but the real healing starts when you start supporting yourself and start healing yourself by giving some efforts.

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    Step 15: Develop Social Surrogacy Hypothesis

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    Step 16: till the time you overcome with loneliness.

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