How to Be a Confident Teenage Girl
Start taking risks!, Define what your goals are by writing them down., Practice good posture at all times (sitting, standing, walking), especially when you're walking alone. , Stay well groomed., Shop for clothes, or make them, to create your own...
Step-by-Step Guide
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Step 1: Start taking risks!
Because every risk you take makes you a more confident and stronger person.
However, understand that there are positive risks and negative risks.
Do the things that lead you forward toward your goals. -
Step 2: Define what your goals are by writing them down.
Set realistic, attainable goals so that you aren't let down if you can't accomplish everything at once.
Take it one step at a time and think positive! ,, Wash your hair often (enough for your hair type) and bathe yourself often.
Don't get too obsessed every minute on how you look.
One of the important things about being confident is being comfortable with yourself and your body.
Be mindful of wearing clothes that are too revealing or too small for your body type, as they can be unflattering.
If you feel the need to, carry simple things with you like a small hairbrush, lip gloss/chap stick, and a small bottle of body spray. , Buy what you like to wear and what makes you happy.
Don't wear anything just because a certain crowd is.
If you like the normal jeans and t-shirt look then, it's totally you.
As long as you're comfortable, you'll become confident.
Follow your own standards. , And never be scared to do the right thing. , Being unique and confident is all about your personal uniqueness.
If you like wearing jewelry, go for it! If you don't like wearing jewelry, that's your personal taste and no one should tell you otherwise.
Your hairstyle, hair color, shoes, purse and other accessories are other ways you can personalize your look.
Like jewelry, these things are not for everyone and you shouldn't do it if you don't feel comfortable with it. , A clean room means that you can find what you need when you need it, so you aren't stressed out because you lost something.
You will also feel better when your friends come over if you can show them a clean room.
Nobody wants to see your underwear on the floor! ,, Study for tests, do homework and all assigned reading.
Answer questions in class and ask questions relating to the topic.
Don't be afraid if you still don't understand what you're learning, talk to your fellow classmates or talk to your teacher.
You can't pass your classes if you don't ask questions.
Being smart is not weird.
People who think so are not smart. , If you have a swearing problem, make up your own "swear word replacements".
Instead of saying the 'F-word'
replace it with the word "frick" or "fudge." A simple word replacement is always better than the actual swear word.
If you can, eventually eliminate these slang terms. , If you're good at dancing, take up a class and polish your skills; if you're good at sports, take lessons and join a team. , It can boost your confidence level, help you develop your social skills, and help you make some friends. , If you love music, go ahead and don't be afraid to whip out your IPod or CD player (If the time is important of course) Read books or write poetry if you love it.
Paint, draw, swim, or watch Anime if it's your personal thing.
Everybody has different hobbies and there's nothing wrong with expressing it.
Remember:
It's all about what makes you happy, not doing it because someone else wants you to.
Find things you're passionate about and don't be afraid to try something new. , If you feel your friends have less respect for you, talk to them.
Let them know how you feel, tell them how you expect to be treated, and offer solutions.
If someone makes you feel bad or not good enough, they are not your friend and you should dump them immediately. . ,, Don't be afraid to say "no" if the situation calls for it.
Example situations would be if a friend asked you to help them cheat or copy off of your homework. , Embrace differences in others and celebrate diversity. ,, As a teenager, you're growing up, but you also have to respect your own boundaries and limits.
When the time comes, you'll know and you'll be much happier that you waited until you were ready. , These are one of the biggest problems as a teenager.
Drugs are not a good thing in the first place and it is preferable that you don't do it at all.
It can do serious damage and ruin your good reputation.
Don't go out and get drunk.
First off as a teenager, you're underage.
Second, getting drunk can be dangerous, you can do things you'll regret. , Don't give into high school stereotypes like being a prep, emo, or punk rocker.
Your own style is what you make it.
If someone calls you a poseur, brush it off. # Think positive! Don't feel pressured to look exactly like a model or celebrity.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and if you think you're beautiful, then you are beautiful! , If someone calls you a mean name, shrug it off, however, if someone compliments you, take it in.
Think about it. , Not only will it make you happy, but it will also make someone else feel good that they did something nice.
They also might become your friend. , or, "Look at me...I look beautiful today."...you could grab a chair and sit in front of the mirror, and state all the good things about you, the things that make you a beautiful girl just the way you are.
Don't compare yourself to a movie star. , If you don't take care of yourself, your emotional health, you could make bad decisions that you'll regret later.
Tell someone if you're scared or upset and that you want help to make yourself feel better. , -
Step 3: Practice good posture at all times (sitting
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Step 4: standing
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Step 5: walking)
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Step 6: especially when you're walking alone.
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Step 7: Stay well groomed.
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Step 8: Shop for clothes
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Step 9: or make them
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Step 10: to create your own unique style.
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Step 11: Don't ever care what people think about you
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Step 12: as long as you know what you are doing is right and it's not hurting anyone.
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Step 13: Personalize your look.
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Step 14: Make sure to keep your room clean.
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Step 15: Remember
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Step 16: make sure you always have pads/tampons in your bag at all times and change pads regularly to prevent accidents.
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Step 17: do all your schoolwork
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Step 18: and do your very best every time.
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Step 19: Speak properly
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Step 20: clearly and audibly
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Step 21: and don't swear a storm.
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Step 22: Develop your talents.
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Step 23: Join some clubs if you're a good socialite or want to get over your shyness.
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Step 24: Participate in your hobbies.
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Step 25: Let go of friends who do not respect you or like you for you.
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Step 26: Make friends with the people you like
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Step 27: not the ones you think you should be friends with.
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Step 28: Understand that it is not healthy to let your peers or students walk all over you
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Step 29: this is big problem if you're shy or the type of person who really likes to please people.
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Step 30: Stay nice to everyone you come across
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Step 31: and smile at people when you pass them while walking.
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Step 32: Socialize and make friends with your parents
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Step 33: and make conversation with adults
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Step 34: but remember to be polite.
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Step 35: Understand that it feels terrible to feel pressured into having a relationship or going and dating if you're not ready.
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Step 36: Remember to never feel pressured into doing drugs
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Step 37: getting drunk
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Step 38: or having sex.
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Step 39: Be yourself!
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Step 40: Forget any slights and don't take insults to mind.
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Step 41: Learn that if someone comes up to you and says "You have a great figure" or "You have
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Step 42: perfect lips" thank them and smile.
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Step 43: Practice looking at yourself in the mirror and saying
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Step 44: "I love you!"
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Step 45: Ask for Help If you're in a bad mood a lot or can't get along with your family
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Step 46: ask your parents
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Step 47: a teacher you trust
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Step 48: someone at a church or a school guidance counselor for help.
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Step 49: If someone is being mean to you
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Step 50: just say "don't be pathetic" and walk away.
Detailed Guide
Because every risk you take makes you a more confident and stronger person.
However, understand that there are positive risks and negative risks.
Do the things that lead you forward toward your goals.
Set realistic, attainable goals so that you aren't let down if you can't accomplish everything at once.
Take it one step at a time and think positive! ,, Wash your hair often (enough for your hair type) and bathe yourself often.
Don't get too obsessed every minute on how you look.
One of the important things about being confident is being comfortable with yourself and your body.
Be mindful of wearing clothes that are too revealing or too small for your body type, as they can be unflattering.
If you feel the need to, carry simple things with you like a small hairbrush, lip gloss/chap stick, and a small bottle of body spray. , Buy what you like to wear and what makes you happy.
Don't wear anything just because a certain crowd is.
If you like the normal jeans and t-shirt look then, it's totally you.
As long as you're comfortable, you'll become confident.
Follow your own standards. , And never be scared to do the right thing. , Being unique and confident is all about your personal uniqueness.
If you like wearing jewelry, go for it! If you don't like wearing jewelry, that's your personal taste and no one should tell you otherwise.
Your hairstyle, hair color, shoes, purse and other accessories are other ways you can personalize your look.
Like jewelry, these things are not for everyone and you shouldn't do it if you don't feel comfortable with it. , A clean room means that you can find what you need when you need it, so you aren't stressed out because you lost something.
You will also feel better when your friends come over if you can show them a clean room.
Nobody wants to see your underwear on the floor! ,, Study for tests, do homework and all assigned reading.
Answer questions in class and ask questions relating to the topic.
Don't be afraid if you still don't understand what you're learning, talk to your fellow classmates or talk to your teacher.
You can't pass your classes if you don't ask questions.
Being smart is not weird.
People who think so are not smart. , If you have a swearing problem, make up your own "swear word replacements".
Instead of saying the 'F-word'
replace it with the word "frick" or "fudge." A simple word replacement is always better than the actual swear word.
If you can, eventually eliminate these slang terms. , If you're good at dancing, take up a class and polish your skills; if you're good at sports, take lessons and join a team. , It can boost your confidence level, help you develop your social skills, and help you make some friends. , If you love music, go ahead and don't be afraid to whip out your IPod or CD player (If the time is important of course) Read books or write poetry if you love it.
Paint, draw, swim, or watch Anime if it's your personal thing.
Everybody has different hobbies and there's nothing wrong with expressing it.
Remember:
It's all about what makes you happy, not doing it because someone else wants you to.
Find things you're passionate about and don't be afraid to try something new. , If you feel your friends have less respect for you, talk to them.
Let them know how you feel, tell them how you expect to be treated, and offer solutions.
If someone makes you feel bad or not good enough, they are not your friend and you should dump them immediately. . ,, Don't be afraid to say "no" if the situation calls for it.
Example situations would be if a friend asked you to help them cheat or copy off of your homework. , Embrace differences in others and celebrate diversity. ,, As a teenager, you're growing up, but you also have to respect your own boundaries and limits.
When the time comes, you'll know and you'll be much happier that you waited until you were ready. , These are one of the biggest problems as a teenager.
Drugs are not a good thing in the first place and it is preferable that you don't do it at all.
It can do serious damage and ruin your good reputation.
Don't go out and get drunk.
First off as a teenager, you're underage.
Second, getting drunk can be dangerous, you can do things you'll regret. , Don't give into high school stereotypes like being a prep, emo, or punk rocker.
Your own style is what you make it.
If someone calls you a poseur, brush it off. # Think positive! Don't feel pressured to look exactly like a model or celebrity.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and if you think you're beautiful, then you are beautiful! , If someone calls you a mean name, shrug it off, however, if someone compliments you, take it in.
Think about it. , Not only will it make you happy, but it will also make someone else feel good that they did something nice.
They also might become your friend. , or, "Look at me...I look beautiful today."...you could grab a chair and sit in front of the mirror, and state all the good things about you, the things that make you a beautiful girl just the way you are.
Don't compare yourself to a movie star. , If you don't take care of yourself, your emotional health, you could make bad decisions that you'll regret later.
Tell someone if you're scared or upset and that you want help to make yourself feel better. ,
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