How to Be Friends with Guys

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: Start smiling!

   You gotta seem approachable to the guys.
   
   This also includes self confidence.
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   Step 2: Sit next to them.

   This way they'll be more likely to start talking to you first, but try not to be too close.
   
   You don't want to look like a stalker.
   
   Make excuses every now and then to be near him. , If there is a particular guy you like and you know he loves something, sports for example, watch the game on TV, or if he's a musician, look up a great song on iTunes to share with him.
   
   After knowing it, simply investigate it in your own so that while conversation already starts you will not feel puzzled of what the topic is all about. , You can pretend to be mad at them, this can come off as "sibling-ly" conflict.
   
   Guys like it when a girl has a sense of humor. ,,,,,, If guys see you talking they'll start to think you are fun to be around and they even might talk to you. ,
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   Step 3: Strike up a conversation.

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   Step 4: If they tease you

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   Step 5: laugh along with them

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   Step 6: or play it up with sarcasm.

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   Step 7: If you become close enough to share an inside joke

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   Step 8: repeat it a few times

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   Step 9: just to make sure they know you remember it and that you find your conversations important.

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    Step 10: Make sure when you are around the guys

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    Step 11: show your great personality and don't seem shy

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    Step 12: guys have interest in girls that seem fun and crazy.

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    Step 13: If they strike up a conversation with you

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    Step 14: don't get scared

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    Step 15: because guys usually won't put you on the spot or make you uncomfortable.

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    Step 16: Go ahead and ask them questions about school or how they are doing

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    Step 17: and so on.

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    Step 18: Don't seem too desperate to get their attention

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    Step 19: some guys may feel that you're too interested to them and they might take you for granted for that.

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    Step 20: Be talkative.

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    Step 21: If the guy you are talking to has his friends around

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    Step 22: it is a great opportunity to introduce yourself and start making more guy friends.

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