How to Be Social at a Party

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: Look approachable.

   Do not cross your arms, this sends an uninviting vibe to someone who may want to come up and talk to you.
   
   Look open and inviting with a genuine smile.
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   Step 2: Mingle and talk to new people as they arrive.

   Ask to be introduced, or do it yourself! , Smile, and if you see a person enter who obviously does not know anyone, walk over to them, and bring them over to the group you are talking to. , When you're in a conversation with other people and someone new walks up, look at him or her, smile and turn your body so that the group includes the newcomer. , Avoid discussing obscure interests or work, and stick to conversations everyone can enjoy:
   Sports, music, festivals, current events, etc.
   
   Ask everyone to recommend a favorite restaurant, movie or museum.
   
   Keep the conversation light and fun. , If you have a guest who's not mingling well, invite them to help you check on the punch or even allow them to help you fix the punch. ,,
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   Step 3: Enjoy yourself and show it.

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   Step 4: Include others.

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   Step 5: Fill newcomers in on what the group has been talking about.

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   Step 6: Invite others to help you.

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   Step 7: Bring friends to the party so you don't just sit in a corner.

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   Step 8: Always have a positive attitude.

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