How to Make Up with a Friend

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: Take a few moments (or longer) to remind yourself of all the great qualities your friend has and why the two of you are friends in the first place.

   Go in your room and cool off for a few minutes.
   
   Relax and think through the good time between you and your friend or maybe think what you should say when you go up to him/her.  , Someone has to take the first step and the fact that you are reading this article shows that you care enough for it to be you. , Tell your friend that you care about him or her.
   
   Bringing up a good memory that you and your friend share can help start a good conversation.
   
   This is not the time to bring up what may have caused the argument.
   
   This is the time to focus on why the friendship is important and how to repair it. , See “Tips” below for some ideas to keep the conversation positive and productive. , See “Tips” below on what to do if this happens.
   
   Be patient and understanding of his or her feelings and keep your feelings in check. ,,
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   Step 2: Have some quiet time.

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   Step 3: Let the good feelings about your friendship give you the courage to talk with your friend.

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   Step 4: Even if it wasn't your fault

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   Step 5: apologize for the way you have acted when you begin your conversation.

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   Step 6: Bring up the argument or incident once you feel your friend is willing to talk.

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   Step 7: Be prepared for the fact that your friend may not be ready to repair things yet.

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   Step 8: Make sure you remind your friend again of how much you value the friendship and how much you care for him or her whether your friend is ready to repair things or not.

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   Step 9: Give your friend a hug.

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